In a recent interview with
Vanguard Newspaper, Nollywood actress, Bose Arowosegbe reveals why actress warm
their way into the beds of married men. The LASPOTECH graduate, who tied the
knot with a married man, stated that most men believe actresses are harlots
EXCERPTS,
I
heard you are now married, when did you marry?
I married May 26, 2013. I
have known my husband a long time before we got married. I met him 13 years
ago, before I even started acting. I was working then at Tafawa Balewa Square.
Are
you a jealous person?
Yes, when it comes to my
husband, I am very jealous.
What
if you catch him in bed with another woman?
That is the end of the
relationship.
But
as a jealous woman you would be on set kissing another man, isn’t that unfair?
See, that is why I have to
cut off taking up some roles when I got married.
Why
are many actresses getting married to married men?
I am married to a married
man too. I have not told anyone this before. Other journalists I have met were
fed the story that my husband is abroad when he has always been in the country.
Most single men out there
are not matured enough to handle the fact that actresses are normal women. They
believe we are harlots to be used and dumped. I believe they are too immature
to handle the life around us. They are easily affected by things they read and
hear about us, and also things they see on screen about us.
But married men are matured
to handle all this. They listen to us instead of listening to gist about us.
They seem to understand women better. Besides, they are more caring, gentler
and wiser.
You
just said you are a jealous woman, how then can you share your man with another
woman?
Because I knew he was
married before I decided to marry him. It was my decision and I knew what I was
walking into. Before I made up my mind I knew the price I was to pay and how I
have to adapt to that. I have decided to share with the woman inside not any
one outside.
Look
at the case of Funke Akindele, why is it that actresses don’t seem to last long
in a marriage?
See, it depends on the man
you are dealing with. If he is the type that understands you, he won’t be
looking out for rumours about you. As a lady, you must let your man understand
the kind of person you are. So, when he hears things about you he understands
you without your having to explain anything. Again, when you are married you
must steer clear of some things you used to do.
Like in the case of Funke
Akindele, I don’t think the problem came from Funke. I don’t know much of the
story but I heard Funke’s husband had impregnated another lady. Even if he had,
there is a way he could have gone about it instead of going public to rubbish
her name because she’s a star. I hate that man for that. Funke is my friend.
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